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This dumb slut let me blah blah blah to her!" and other douchebaggery...

Our government is a slut. The only way we can get it to do what we want and not what it wants is by expressing our opinions about it.

Spoken like someone who has never been slut-shamed. Classic ad hominem.

Or - She speaks up and gets called a "prude" or, ironically, a "slut". Maybe they'll blame it on her sweater being a little too form-fitting, or a little too low-cut.

This is similar to slut shaming. How someone acts before, after, or any other time doesn't affects whether they wanted to have sex in that instance.

You're right, she totally should have "battled for relevancy" despite being called a "slut" and a "whore" while the CEO does nothing about it. Obviously, she just wasn't trying hard enough.

I was all set to agree with you and criticize OP for being overly sensitive; but yeah, the writer was less making a biblical reference than calling a young woman a slut. Uncalled for.

So a scene showing fairly vanilla sex will be labelled "slut gets destroyed by huge cock" or something. To be honest I would suspect that women in porn who truly hate the experience wouldn't last too long.

And I really hate the stud/slut dichotomy. If a woman who hung out with typical frat boys in college and got flash-lighted is untouchable, then why aren't those frat boys, who did the flash-lighting, likewise?

However, if that's not enough, you might also look for the occurrences of "choke", "gag", "destroy", "slut", etc. Third, even the porn that doesn't focus on pain teaches wrong stuff.

Is it weird that when I saw the headline I thought this was going to be article about how calling a guy creepy is the same thing as slut-shaming but for males? And that this guy was going to offer up a sort of fix to the problem of inappropriately "creep-shaming" men?

But the word "creepy", when used to describe an undesirable man, is every bit as derogatory as "fattie" or "slut" when applied to a woman. It's the kind of word that is used for character assasination.

However, if that's not enough, you might also look for the occurrences of "choke", "gag", "destroy", "slut", etc. --- You're searching for that specific type of porn - of course it's going to be degrading.

But he was sharing his personal frustrations with C++, not engaging in the programming equivalent of "slut-shaming" someone for using C++. That's an important distinction that I think has been lost with the HN community.

> a hacker accessed a Houston couple’s device and called their 2-year-old a slut Sorry, this is just hilarious; partly because the journalist doesn't put the degradation in quotes.

However, if that's not enough, you might also look for the occurrences of "choke", "gag", "destroy", "slut", etc. I might be mistaken here, but as far as I can tell this kind of porn is the minority.

Calling Tinder user "sluts" is no more appropriate than calling my Chinese users "chinks", or my gay users "faggots". It seems intentionally obtuse to pretend that the term doesn't have a gigantic truckload of derogatory connotations behind it.

I can't speak for the whole world, but in North America at least I've never seen the word "slut" used in everyday speech that wasn't intended to be derogatory. Side note: "purely because it was considered bad 60 years ago for a woman to be promiscuous" I don't think that's 60 years ago, I'm pretty sure that's still today.

However, if that's not enough, you might also look for the occurrences of "choke", "gag", "destroy", "slut", etc. And an entire subgroup which focus on the same with the man -- but most people don't look that far, because they just want to look down on porn.

Readers are quick to pat themselves on the back for the community's mature lack of slut-shaming, while neglecting to realize that an entirely different form of sexism and woman-objectification is taking place.

Spoken like someone who has never been slut-shamed. Or had his/her leg blown off by a landmine. People don't actually get maimed because they stupidly walked into a minefield. They get maimed because someone put a minefield where they live and grew up, and they can't live life at all without being in constant danger. Women don't get slut-shamed because they did something to deserve it, they get slut-shamed because they live in a culture where our first reaction to anything having to do with women and harassment is to look for a reason why she had it coming.