2 example sentences using paralipsis.
Paralipsis used in a sentence
Paralipsis in a sentence as a noun
It'd probably be obnoxious for me to mention here that the word you're looking for is "paralipsis," so I won't.
I don't know if I'd term it paralipsis, but I do get what you're saying about the weird contrast between praise followed by criticism.
Paralipsis definitions
noun
suggesting by deliberately concise treatment that much of significance is omitted
See also: paralepsis paraleipsis preterition